The battle to make our souls, our minds, wills and emotions fully God's is how we learn to love. So the answer to the question, why? Why does God allow this process to happen knowing that we're going to sin, we're going to fail, we're going to struggle? The answer to that question is this is God's process for restoring us as sons and daughters.
It's through this struggle that we learn to rely on him and depend on Him. It's through this struggle that we learn to love and overcome self, Satan and sin. Love is a choice. And it's a choice that must be made again and again and again. I married my wife over 27 years ago.
I loved her then and I've loved her again and again and again over all of these years. And it's the same thing with God. We fight this battle through our desire for God, through. Through our love for God. Second, through our obedience to God. There was a time when I came to obey my Father because I loved him and not just because he was stronger than me.
Obedience to God. Learning to trust God with everything, even things I don't understand. Love is God's greatest weapon. Learn to love through the tests and trials of life. Stay in Christ. Keep loving Jesus and keep obeying him to the best of your ability. He is both your Savior and Lord.