God placed a deep desire to be loved and to love in your heart. Ask him to lead you into the fullness of the love that he has for you. That desire is there for you to reach out and take the love that God has for you. Romans 5:5 and hope does not put us to shame because God's love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who's been given to us.
God pours his love into us, enabling us to love others in ways we never could on our own. This is the work of the Holy Spirit, who actually creates God's character in us, replacing our flawed human character with the character of Christ. Holy Spirit creates love in us. God's born again sons and daughters 1 John 4,:7-8 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.
Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. God teaches us how to love the way he does. 1 Thessalonians 4:9 Now, concerning brotherly love, you have no need for anyone to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love one another.